When its real, You just know…

Did you know that it is actually okay to not want to be in a relationship?

A relationship is not meant to make you happy. It is nobody’s job to make you happy. To put an expectation on someone else that their commitment to you is to keep you in a constant state of happiness, is insane!

 You don’t need, and shouldn’t need, someone else to feel happy.

Let’s face it, you’re pretty great. Why would you need someone else? You have so many other opportunities going on that make you feel happy, that shouldn’t be a boy/girlfriend. You don’t need someone to make you feel “complete”

When you stop looking to others for validation, you become one of the strongest people.

You want to focus on your studies/job etc.

 Perfect your craft, its your craft no one else can do it like you.

You can actually genuinely love your craft and want to do well. And that’s okay, despite what people might say. Because while you’re succeeding in your field after putting the work in, everyone else is still exactly where they are, trying to find that “perfect someone”. Which is a waste of time.

Not being tied down is great.

You have no commitments. You can go traveling around the world in a second if you want, or get to mingle with others because you’re free to do so, and it’s so liberating.

Only you know what you want.

It doesn’t matter if everyone around you is in a three year relationship and are so happy, because guess what? So are you. Just because they can’t understand how you can live a happy life without a partner doesn’t mean you have to spend your time searching for Mr/Mrs. Right. You shouldn’t have to explain yourself to anyone.

Yes, man is not meant to be alone, but with all due time the person who is right for you will come along.

Everything that happens in your life is going exactly how its suppose to. So why rush whats supposed it happen?

It will naturally happen in time.


“It takes a strong person to stay single in a world who’s so custom to getting something just to say have someone.”


Deja V



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